In a recent mentoring session, I brought up the idea that being a fellow traveler is one of the fundamental good things we humans can do.
I’ve been musing on this a lot lately. We go through our lives in our separate bodies and minds. When we focus on that separation, it’s easy to get lonely.
There’s a lot of money to be made in getting people to focus on their separate bodies and minds, and then capitalizing on the loneliness it helps to create.
Advertising has played on this for years, getting us to buy products and services to make our individual bodies more healthy, pure, and attractive.
Social media took it even further, not only with the focus on the individual body but on our minds: making each of us smarter than the other, according to our own individualized, algorithmically governed feeds.
I’m a lot happier when I remember that I’m only alone in this one body, in this one mind. Everywhere else, I’m in close community with the people nearest me in time, space, and internet.
I can choose to ignore that I am together with all these other people (and corporations would love me to do that, and spend more money to compensate), or I can recognize that I am always traveling my own path in the company of others.
And when I’m too tired to travel, or have too much work to do by myself, I can still be a friend to [hu]man[kind].