As I write this (Monday morning), my region is preparing for an atmospheric river event. The models show that it may break records for flooding, because too much water will fall from the sky at once.
It’s also the darkest time of year, with darkness for up to 16 hours in 24.
Last week, I spoke to several people who are choosing to forgo holiday gift-giving, because after a year of high gas, insurance, medical, and grocery prices, they can’t afford it.
At the same time, my national government is reversing positions that created peace and prosperity, according to historians, and reversing policies based on decades of research.
It would be natural to let a feeling of doom set in, is what I’m saying.
But curiously, instead of feeling the doom take over, I’ve been noticing the opposite. I don’t think I’ve ever been so aware of what a gift it is when somebody else connects with me.
In my local community, I’ve gotten to know people at the coffeeshop that I am genuinely fond of. They greet me with a smile and ask me how the book is going, and I ask them how they are. For various people, I ask about the play they’re costuming, their ongoing decisions about moving an elderly relative, how their kids are doing in school, how their recovery is going after a medical procedure—the list goes on and on.
I get to connect in my open office hours, too. Recently, one new attendee asked me: what do you get out of these? It was difficult to answer briefly, because there are so many answers. It boils down to this: People from all over the world come to me, opening my eyes to their ideas and aspirations, their struggles and questions about content, design, presenting, careers, technology, AI and the future. Note, I can’t answer these questions! But I can share and compare information, encouragement, caution, and hope, and that’s still better than nothing.
I don’t go to the coffeeshop just for the coffee (though it’s yummy). I don’t have open office hours just because it’s good for me to have a wide network of people working in this space.
Connection—people sharing their own spark of life—creates the hope that keeps the doom away.
Thank you for connecting with me. 💖